Guys, it's time to have a heart to heart. We need to talk about your understanding about the "little boat man".
That's right, clitoris. Sad to say. most men do not really understand this little weapon of carnal pleasure that nature has grieved women with. The clitoris is the ONLY organ of the human body that serves absolutely no purpose discoverable by medical science except to provide the most exquisite natural physical pleasure for a woman possible.
Consider that the clitoris, this tiny nub that is the gateway to a woman's orgasm, has over eight thousand nerve endings. Yes, 8,000! This is twice as much as on the head of your penis. Now also consider that those eight thousand nerve endings are stacked as close as possible to an area smaller than a pencil eraser, though the clitoral size varies greatly. Still, the clitoris is small and oh so incredibly sensitive and needs to be approached gently and with much more patience than your sparse, eager penis who is always willing to accept what he can get.
In other words guys? It is no longer gentle, and you have to go slowly!
One of the first mistakes that even well-intentioned men make during the preface to try to get their lady's fluids flowing is to immediately make a tongue dive like a hunger pendulum, making strong wild pushes in the center our most sensitive of its existence.
Well, we know you'll say it well, but … WRITTEN! This is the very early way in the game, and the direct and powerful stimulation of the cry like the one to be saved for later, if at all, and always to be worked on gradually.
Instead, focus on caresses, and passionate and gentle caresses and caresses. While you are a little off topic, start with a back rub or massage, a foot massage, gently admire and appreciate her breasts. And its KISS! Let her know you love her.
At some point in creating your love, you will naturally gravitate to the pleasures of your mouth, and as much as you enjoy sucking your cock, try to be fair about who goes first in the field. You guys find it easier to know, and your orgasm is almost a guarantee, while many if not most women need things to unfold in a more just way to cum at all. However, some say that nature, more than created by it, gives women the extraordinary gift of being able to have multiple orgasms.
Now, back to the center of her universe. Instead of creating a bee line and attacking the clitoris in a fierce manner, start by admiring the whole surrounding area first. Gently knead the area above with your fingertips. Massage along the sides of her vagina. Start giving some gentle kisses in these areas, then gently sow kisses throughout the area, perhaps sounding gentle here and there.
At this point, DON'T shake half your hand in it, okay? Rather, be aware of her body and how you like it. If you hear a gentle sigh or anxiety when doing something in particular? Do it again. If her hips move her towards you deceitfully? You're making a good impression.
When you know she wants more, then you can start addressing this pleasant pleasure. At first, gently kiss, gently stroke. Gently bend it forward and backward without touching it directly. Then leave your tongue gently, and we mean GOD, tempting it several times. Wet a finger or two with your saliva and try caressing it, but not directly at first. Massage the hood first. Make her want more.
If she is responding favorably, and her body movements should tell you yes or no, slowly build up the action. When she tells you verbally that something in particular feels good? Keep doing it. Sometimes her signs will be involuntary, and that data is just as good. Repeat rules when this happens, but you will need to learn how far and how long to go before it gets bored or insensitive.
Now and then, take a break and leave her with a kiss, and briefly turn your attention to another area of her body, everywhere else, just do something nice for her chest or thighs, or slide her back briefly and kiss , ask her if she likes it.
Then? Go back and do some more. At this stage, a finger or two inside the vagina is appropriate, as is the licking of her labia. If you know how to find its place G (and if we won't address it at another time). Change the way you use your language in its clit. Gently tighten, slide slowly, or even quickly, back and forth, or up and down, take long licks wide with the flat of your tongue. And when he likes something? Do it again and again. And don't forget about the future.
At some point, if things are going well, her dress may appear to be gone, hiding under the hood. This is a good thing and means that it is on the cutting edge. Speed things up here and keep doing what you're doing and prepare to enjoy its crunch on the land of "la petit mort" what the French call "little death."
A woman's orgasm is probably one of the most beautiful things in the world to witness, and consider that you are right there in the center of it, contributing to it even.
All women clump differently, but overall, their orgasm is a series of involuntary spasms, from three to fifteen anus convulsions, pelvic, uterine, and vaginal muscles, a glorius ride of pleasant waves.
And women can also have multiple ones. But don't be jealous. Learn to please her and her natural gratitutude will flow from her in her mutual desires to please you more than ever. A man who learns to do this and to show that he truly loves them will also never be alone forever.